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How
to Get a Girl to Like You
By John J. Alexander
We've all had that special woman in our
lives. You know... the one with the sweet personality, the really
nice hair and a perfect face. She dates the more
"adept" guys... but how can you get her to like you?
While men are primarily attracted to women
based on their looks, a woman finds a man attractive because of
his personality. A ideal man is an alpha male who's confident in
himself and not afraid to take the lead and get what he wants out
of life.
Ironically, what this means then is that
the best way for a girl to like you is when she feels like she
has EARNED you.
That's because to get a girl to like you,
you should come from a mindset of high value. Never come from a
position of neediness.
So the best attitudes to have towards any
one particular woman are:
1. Nonchalance.
2. Non-attachment to whether she likes you
or not. (By that I mean, if she likes you that's awesome, but if
not, there are tons of other chicks out there who are equally as
great as she is.)
The bottom line is that a woman should
never be a challenge for you. Instead you should be a challenge
for her.
In addition to placing a high value on
yourself, you can also eliminate neediness by building up your
social network. Make friends with as many women as you can.
(Women are easy to make friends with.)
Also date as many women as you can... don't
restrict yourself only to dating "that one special
girl."
You see, the last thing you ever want to
have going through your mind when you're around that special
woman is, "God, I MUST have this girl! She's
irreplaceable!" Having an abundance of women in your life
will solve that problem.
Also, whenever a woman sees that other
chicks are attracted to a guy, she too feels attraction.
Psychologically, this is known as the "social proof"
phenomenon... and it's much more powerful in women than men.
Ever noticed how your female friends drool
over the guy at the corner of the bar who's got four babes at his
table? That's social proof in action.
By the way, it's fine to think a girl is
beautiful and to feel something strong for her.
Here's the key though... you must always
remind yourself that there are LOTS of other women out there who
are just as wonderful as that girl you really like.
If you start thinking that any girl is one
of a kind, then that gives her power over you, and, ironically,
makes her lose attraction to you.
So, you're free to think that a woman's
amazing. Just remember that lots of other girls are amazing too.
That way you won't become needy.
So remember, place a high value on
yourself, make her earn your attention, and hang out with as many
women as possible... those are the three secrets for how to get a
girl to like you.
John Alexander is author of How
to Become an Alpha Male, a seduction success
system for men. Discover the excitement and pleasure
of having gorgeous, horny women automatically drawn to
you like a magnet.
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