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How
to Tell if a Guy Likes You: Does He Like You?
Why are Guys So Hard to Read?
By Kathleen Lieu
First off, regardless of what your
heart tells you or how your mind forces you to think, DO NOT
obsess with a guy you can never have. There are so many more fish
in the sea, so many more guys you can love who actually deserve
your love. Do not ever hurt yourself for some guy who will never
learn to appreciate you. The signs are the following:
If you are his candidate for a
Booty Call and then he doesn't know you during the day.
If he uses you.
If he abuses you.
If he hurts you. For instance, he
calls you Fat. He doesn't tease you playfully, he downright
treats you like garbage.
If he talks behind your back about
you. If he starts rumours about you...
Understand this, guys can really
be evil sometimes. Move on if you answered yes to any of the
above.
Now that we've got that out of the
way, here comes the juicy part. How can you tell if a guy likes
you? You like him. You feel it in the gut he likes you back. But
you need some substantial proof. I will not go into the types of
guys out there, because in the end, there will always be a group
of guys who have no niche to fall into. These tips are not
foolproof, since human nature is always fickle. So, I suggest you
read this and use it as a reference and not your bible.
Strategy ONE
Ask him. He says he likes you.
Case closed. You are done. But, fearing rejection, can you even
do that? If only things were so simple. I'll tell you this. Just
ask him. This will save you a lot of time. If he says no, then
you can understand that he doesn't and may not even after knowing
you for a bit of time. Therefore, it will be him who regrets
later on when he falls for you in return, granted you guys will
hang out and stuff... Maybe not, since if he does reject you, it
will be too embarassing... So what you can do is this....
"Do you like me?"
"No."
"I knew it! I don't like you
either." Haha!
"Do you like me?"
"Yes, as a friend."
"Me too. I was worried
because I thought you didn't like me as a friend..." Saved!
If he says he likes you in a way
that he likes you likes you and not as friend, then you've just
scored yourself your dream guy.
Signs that he likes you He
blushes and sweats. You intimidate him.
He stares at you. (He can be a
stalker, beware)
He does things to deliberately
gain your attention.
He stutters when he speaks to you.
His pupils dilate when you are up
close and you see them... Beware, pupils dilate when it is dim,
mostly.
He waits for you. He looks out for
you.
He laughs at your jokes when no
one else does.
He teases you because he wants you
to remember and notice him.
He listens to you and actually
remembers little details.
He notices slight changes in your
appearance.
He seems sad when you ignore him.
He seems jealous when you are with
another guy. Whoo.
His friends all know you when you
don't know them.
He smiles back when you smile at
him.
He often stares at you and when
you catch him, he does that cute head turn, very fast!
He performs sweet acts for you. He
defends and protects you. He tolerates you being mean to him.
Signs that he is a player
He is a smooth talker. He is very
comfortable around you.
He places his hands on you with
ease.
Every other girl likes him.
Just be careful.
There are many more signs, but
anyway, just go with your heart, take care of yourself, and let
things happen naturally. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be.
Information about the
author and more of her articles can be found at Nummyz.com
My
Cup of Tea A teen-romance that gives you clues on
boys.
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