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How
to Flirt and Never Get Rejected
By David King
When it comes to flirting, you can get your
point across very easily just using your eyes. Take a moment and
watch people who are in love. See how they look at each other -
they stare directly into each other's eyes for extended periods
of time. Look at mere friends. See their eyes? They seem to flit
back and forth, making eye contact, but never extended eye
contact.
What do I mean by extended eye contact?
Holding someone's gaze for 1-2 seconds. Looking deep into their
eyes for that time. I realize that couples may look at each other
in this way for longer periods of time, but remember they are
ALLOWED to do this - they are a couple. For our purposes, you are
just flirting.
If you were to try and stare into some
girl's eyes for long periods of time (especially if you don't
know her), she will think that you're staring at her and she'll
think that you're strange (because you're making her feel
uncomfortable).
The goal here is to make eye contact with
her, and to hold her attention by looking straight into her eyes
for a couple of seconds so that she gets the idea that you're
interested in her.
Be sure to smile, or to at least have a
partial smile on your face as you do this. If you stare at her
like this with a stone face, you'll freak her out. She'll either
think that you're mad at her, or that you're just some type of
psycho (both are bad).
If she seems to quickly look away, she is
either playing hard to get, or she doesn't have an interest in
you. Either way, if you feel that she's worth the effort, you
will probably have to persue some decent conversation with her.
If you have found this article interesting
and want to learn more, you should check out David's website at
www.christcentereddating.com, to learn more about flirting,
talking to women or other specific tips and "how-to's"
on finding the woman of your dreams.
David King is the author of the
book entitled "How to Find the Woman of Your
Dreams" which is available on his website, http://www.christcentereddating.com
His goal is to help Christian
guys find the the beautiful woman that God has for
them, using Biblical principles and natural techniques
that honor and develop a real relationship with Jesus
Christ.
He has also written content for
a number of different websites including http://www.bigbrothersadvice.com
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