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Going
in for the Goodnight Kiss
By Ron Zvagelsky
When should you go in for the goodnight
kiss?
Nobody wants to be rejected. So how do you
know when it's alright to go in for the first goodnight kiss?
Well that's a very difficult call to make since every woman/man
is different. As a male, I will tackle this topic from the
perspective of the man.
Body language is a great way to tell if
they're into you. Lets begin by looking at some of the things
women do that show they're interested during the conversation:
- Playing with and/or twirling hair (this
is a tough one and can be confused with a simple case of OCD)
- Raising their shoulders straight up and
leaning towards you
- Hands are open with her palms facing up
and outwards
- Lots of giggling
You know she's interested...now what? It's
time to go in for a kiss. Since she's in to you, there will be
many opportunities throughout the night to make your move. If you
wait until the last minute and hesitate (at the door or end of
the date), you pretty much lost your chance. So be on the safe
side and try to do it about midway through the date.
So what if you're not sure?
Just go for it! What's the worst that can
happen...they say no? You have everything to gain and nothing to
lose; you'll probably never see them again anyways.
Here are three different approaches to the
goodnight kiss:
- Silent: Making eye
contact and then leaning in about 90% of the way
- Polite: Asking them if
it's alright to give them a kiss
- Brave: Telling them that
they have nice lips and asking if you could kiss them
So you chicken out...now what?
Nothing. Opportunities come and go...it
really comes down to the person and how they choose to handle the
situation. Some people can care less, while others take it
harder. But the worst is when you regret not going in for the
kiss when you know you should have. It happens to us all...we
meet someone we really hit it off with or maybe a friend we
always had the biggest crush on but never the nerve to let them
know. Before you know it they're gone; it's like clockwork, they
either meet someone or move across the country. And in the end
all you're left with are those two dreaded words,
what if?
Ron Zvagelsky has a degree in
Business Administration from the University of
Southern California. He graduated Magna Cum Laude in
May 2006. He is currently the Chief Executive Officer
of PlanJam.com
-- a new interactive planning website.
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